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    Spirit Bonding & Calling In Process


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    Here we will discuss Spirit Bonding, How to do it and what to expect from the connection to your new Spirit.

    First of all I would like to say that skepticism is healthy and it is not something that we discourage here. Everyone is on their own path and needs to come to spirit communication in their own way. This path is not right for everyone and needs to be nurtured to be of real assistance to you in your life. Magick and Healing does happen but it is the Magick and Healing already in you and in your spirits that makes it so!:) You Must BELIEVE in yourself and in your spirits before you can make positive changes in your life. Your spirits can and will give you the confidence you need to make those changes if you invite them into your life. It is an amazing and very fulfilling process of empowering yourself! It is our pleasure and honor to be the ones to help you to empower yourselves to have the best life possible! Spirits become a part of you and your family and it is very important for you to have only the best, most positive and powerful ones available and we strive to do just that.

    Spirits can also communicate in a variety of ways to you…you can feel them with different sensations in, on or around your body. There is nothing frightening in this at all…as long as you know the person who conjured the spirit for you and know what the spirit is capable of and it is a spirit of the light or is a dual spirit and yet does no harm to you or others….except of course in self defense. it is just the spirit bonding with you and letting you know they are there. Another way spirits communicate is through the use of a pendulum and spirit board to help you get answers from a individual spirit. This is very helpful to those new to spirits and a method I suggest using at first to gain a stronger connection to your spirit so that eventually you will not need to use it at all and can communicate with your spirits without any aid. You need to develop confidence in yourself and what is coming through to you from your spirits for this to happen though. Too many of those new to spirits think there should be little work involved from themselves for the spirits to work for you but You need to be engaged in the process as well for the spirits to be of benefit to you. You work WITH your spirits..they do not work FOR you…Spirits come to you and bond with you because they wish to be with you to help you in some way in your life. This is a blessing you are receiving and should be treated that way. You need to be open to this experience for it to occur and should always make sure to protect yourself spiritually with a meditation or prayer before making contact with your spirits so as to not draw anything negative to you at the same time while you are open to communication with the spirit realm.

    We make the process of bonding with your new spirit easier and safer for you by bonding the spirit to you before it leaves us and sealing the vessel so that there is no chance of energy corruption during handling. We feel this is the safest method for assuring you of getting only the spirit you need and no other negative energies with it.


    Bonding with your new spirit is simple….Just pick a time when you can be alone for a while and while holding your vessel…you should do only one vessel at a time…light a candle and some incense, or if your allergic to incense oil if you choose…it is not mandatory but spirits do respond favorably to scents associated with their element or type. Light the candle while holding the vessel in your two hands and call the spirits name 3 times, pausing in between each calling for a few seconds…( this can be done in your mind)…when you have called the name for the third time…wait for a response from the spirit…sometimes it will be subtle and sometimes a very pronounced response. Allow plenty of time for this interaction with your new spirit and write down anything you get in your journal to refer to later. Once this is done..thank your new spirit for choosing you and their communication with you and snuff the candle out…never blow out a candle…use a candle snuffer. Your bonding process has now begun.

    It can take up to 2 weeks or sometimes more to bond fully with a new spirit…especially if you are new to spirit collecting…during this time keep your vessel close and say the spirits name often and communicate with them…this can be done silently in your mind if you are around others. You will soon develop your own private signs with each individual spirit letting you know it is them. Names should always be kept a secret from others and you should not allow others to handle your vessels. Charge them in the full moon all night once a month to keep them strong and happy and also the sun for spirits that like or need the sunlight as well. Finally, be respectful of your spirits and the empowerment they bring you and you will have a wonderful and fulfilling relationship with your awesome companions!

    If you have any questions just send me a pm on Facebook or here and I will try to help…Happy Spirit Collecting!